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Category Archives: FAQ

BDSM Writers Con Affiliate Program

Posted on December 4, 2014 by Dr. Charley FerrerDecember 4, 2014
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Hi there, It’s come to my attention that some of you may not be award of our BDSM Writers Con Affiliate Program. Every time someone you refer signs up to attend BDSM WRITERS CON you receive money; as much as … Continue reading →

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What do I wear for the club night?

Posted on November 21, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerNovember 21, 2013
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Dress to impress in your finest leather or PVC–then again, clothing is optional.  *weg* If you don’t have any leather or PVC, not to worry! We have a shopping trip planned to our favorite BDSM clothing stores in NYC. Plus, … Continue reading →

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Trust or Fear of Rejection?

Posted on November 20, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerNovember 20, 2013
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I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over four months. He clearly has a dominant side however we’ve never talked about D/s. How can I bring up the fact that I want to explore BDSM with him without … Continue reading →

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Want more info on submission.

Posted on November 14, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerNovember 14, 2013
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I would like to have information on my newly discovered desire: Submission. It is all very new to me and while exciting, a bit anxious feeling.(english??) Thanks, Sarah Hi Sarah, Welcome to the world of Dominance & submission. There’s no … Continue reading →

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Do Dominants have limits?

Posted on November 8, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerNovember 7, 2013
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Having limits is something everyone in the D/s community has. For a Dominant, we typically don’t state them since we’re the ones “in charge”; however, we do have them. Typically a Dominant’s limits are revealed based on the limits they … Continue reading →

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The thrill of being a Dominant.

Posted on November 7, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerNovember 6, 2013
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I imagine being a Dom would be an awesome experience. The thrill of having someone serve you in every way must be pretty incredible! *sigh* Do you feel this way? From a Dominant’s perspective, yes, it is incredible to have … Continue reading →

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Favorite How Kinky am I?

Posted on October 22, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerOctober 11, 2013
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How kinky am I? Everyone always asks, “how kinky am I?”. As if there is a quantitative scale to help prove that they are “kinky enough” or “not kinky at all”. In 2007, I developed the Kinky Scale to help … Continue reading →

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Downside to gags.

Posted on October 21, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerOctober 20, 2013
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What are the down sides to gags? The downside to gags is they reduce the ability to have the slave/submissive speak with you. If you’re a reaction junkie, you’ll have to take that into consideration as the sub won’t be … Continue reading →

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Playing in a hotel.

Posted on October 20, 2013 by Dr. Charley FerrerOctober 20, 2013
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My partner and I are going to a hotel for a few days to be able to indulge our need for kink. Since we’re still new at this, can you recommend ways that I can restrain my partner while at … Continue reading →

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What books do you recommend?

Posted on October 10, 2013 by travisperkinsOctober 10, 2013
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What books would you recommend if someone is interested in gaining more knowledge about BDSM and Dominance and submission in general? There are a few books I can recommend to get you started, I’ve listed them below. I also provide … Continue reading →

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