I met Kathy Kulig when she attended my first BDSM Writers Con event in 2011. Her desire to learn and improve her craft as a writer was inspiring. I’ve enjoyed her blog articles and stories and I sure you will … Continue reading
Dr. Charley Ferrer
Gosh, can you believe it, next week is Thanksgiving? The families will decent upon us (or you on them) and everyone will come together for food, fun and the joy of being alive. You’ll have the crazy relatives who talk … Continue reading
Dress to impress in your finest leather or PVC–then again, clothing is optional. *weg* If you don’t have any leather or PVC, not to worry! We have a shopping trip planned to our favorite BDSM clothing stores in NYC. Plus, … Continue reading
I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over four months. He clearly has a dominant side however we’ve never talked about D/s. How can I bring up the fact that I want to explore BDSM with him without … Continue reading
Miranda Baker is the author of the Come Again and Double Helix series for Samhain Publishing. A longtime reader of smut, she decided the best way to get her groove back after having three kids would be to write some. … Continue reading
Hi everyone, We’ll we’ve got one more week till the Thanksgivings giving holiday when families descend upon us and we reach for the Tums and Alka Seltzer to help us feel better. I still remember that commercial where the older … Continue reading
How to avoiding pain during anal sex. Why start slow? Risk factors with anal sex. Dr. Charley Ferrer provides simple tips to help build pleasure and keep desire alive. Want more information about anal sex or relationships visit www.doctorcharley.com or … Continue reading
I would like to have information on my newly discovered desire: Submission. It is all very new to me and while exciting, a bit anxious feeling.(english??) Thanks, Sarah Hi Sarah, Welcome to the world of Dominance & submission. There’s no … Continue reading
With the coming holidays we have wonderful things to look forward to: a celebration of gratitude, a reuniting of families, and a time to think about what we want most in our lives and what we’d like to share with … Continue reading
Dr. Charley Ferrer is a world renowned Clinical Sexologist and the FIRST Latina Doctor of Human Sexuality in the United States. She is the award winning author of BDSM The Naked Truth, BDSM for Writers, and The W.I.S.E. Journal for the Sensual … Continue reading
Having limits is something everyone in the D/s community has. For a Dominant, we typically don’t state them since we’re the ones “in charge”; however, we do have them. Typically a Dominant’s limits are revealed based on the limits they … Continue reading
I imagine being a Dom would be an awesome experience. The thrill of having someone serve you in every way must be pretty incredible! *sigh* Do you feel this way? From a Dominant’s perspective, yes, it is incredible to have … Continue reading
Hello everyone! It’s been two weeks since we last spoke and much has happened since. We have prizes to giveaway, speakers to introduce, workshops to highlight and poll questions to ask. This week I’d like to introduce Sorcha Black from … Continue reading
This week it’s my pleasure to introduce to you Sorcha Black one of our BDSM WRITERS CON workshop presenters. I don’t know about you, but I think she looks like a young Angelina Jolie. Maybe they’re related? Who knows? What … Continue reading
Helping a man GET IT UP. Working through erection problems. Strengthening the penis. Cock rings vs Kegel exercises for men. America’s Intimacy & Sex Expert, Dr. Charley Ferrer provides valuable tips on getting and maintaining a strong erection. For more … Continue reading
Learn how to enhance your orgasms. What are kegels and how do they help? Creating orgasms that last and derive more pleasure from your sex life. World renowned Clinical Sexologist and Sex Expert provides tips on the video & in … Continue reading
Curious about BDSM and all the hype surround 50 Shades? Want to spice up your sex life? Get started with BDSM. Learn what to do and with whom. Is consensuality important? How to keep cops out of your bedroom. America’s … Continue reading
What’s the difference between BDSM and domestic violence? Why is consensual Dominance & submission not abuse? Learn important tips from America’s BDSM Expert, Dr. Charley Ferrer about this highly controversial and uniquely erotic lifestyle. For more information read BDSM The … Continue reading
Hi everyone, This has been an exciting two week for the BDSM WRITERS CON Conference Committee. We’ve finally got our new website up and running. Please tell us what you think. You’ll notice we have created several new sections in the … Continue reading
How kinky am I? Everyone always asks, “how kinky am I?”. As if there is a quantitative scale to help prove that they are “kinky enough” or “not kinky at all”. In 2007, I developed the Kinky Scale to help … Continue reading