Bo BlazeWhat is it about doing things that are “wrong” that is so damn appealing?

Why would things that cause extreme guilt and shame excite us so?

Join Alternative Life Coach, Bo Blaze, who is not only a professional certified coach but also self certified Reaction Junky, as he discusses why “the more it bothers you that you like it… the more you like it!”

We’ll explore the excitement/arousal as well as the guilt/shame felt by a bottom participating or even fantasizing about play they find morally or socially wrong, or can’t even legally do.

We’ll look at how playing with sensitive personal subjects can evoke intense reactions and why Dominants enjoy learning everything about you so they can literally use it against you!


Bo Blaze is a PCC certified “Alternative” life coach; specializing in Alternative Sexual Relationships & Non-Traditional Lifestyles. He is the author of the bestselling book “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners” and is a nationally known expert on Kink, Lifestyle BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy (Polyamory), the Fetish World and LGBT issues. He has taught and lectured all over the country at hundreds of universities, conferences and various alternative events.

He is the winner of the 2011 Pantheon of Leather President’s Award and has helped thousands learn to practice Safe, Sane & Consensual BDSM over the last 10 years, as Novice Group Facilitator & Board Member Emeritus, for The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), the oldest & largest BDSM support and education group in the Country. For more information please visit


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